I'm New Here
Frequently Asked Questions
Visiting a new church can be intimidating; what should I wear? Where do I park? Where do my kids go?
We want you to feel comfortable when you visit, so here are some frequently asked questions. For more information, don't hesitate to contact us or talk with an usher when you visit.
When are services?
You can find our Mass Schedule here.
What should I wear?
We want you to feel comfortable. After all, we are thrilled that you're joining us and want tyou to be more focused on the service than what you're wearing. In summertime, it's not uncommon to see people wearing sandals, shorts and a shirt. Others prefer to still put on their "Sunday best," and that's fine too!
How do I get to Church of the Nativity?
From the North:
I-5 to Via de la Valle, go east about 4 miles
Right on Calzada del Bosque
Right on Via de Santa Fe
Left curve becomes El Apajo Road
The church is about 1/4 mile on your right.
From the South:
I-5 to Del Mar Heights Road
Right on Del Mar Heights Road
Left on El Camino Real
Right on San Dieguito Road
Go 3 miles to stoplight in Fairbanks Village
Left on El Apajo Road
The church is about 1/4 mile on your left.
From the East:
CA-56 West to Camino del Sur
North on Camino del Sur
Left on San Dieguito Road
Right on El Apajo Road
The church is about 1/4 mile on your left
Am I expected to put money in the offering?
If you are visiting with us, we don't expect you to put money into the offering, and you are welcome to just let it pass you by. If you consider our parish your church home, we'd love for you to prayerfully consider giving to our parish on a weekly basis. You can give by check or cash during the services, or you can sign up for online giving here.
I'm not Catholic...when do I sit, stand, or kneel?
The Priest will invite you to sit, stand or kneel, but when in doubt, just follow everyone else.
Click here for an interesting perspective from Catholic Answers.
I'm not Catholic...am I still able to participate in communion?
You may remain seated or join the Communion procession, crossing your arms over your chest to indicate to the Priest that you wish to receive a blessing. If you wish to become Catholic, please contact Mike James, Pastoral Associate, at 858 756-1911 for information on our R.C.I.A. Program.
I have a hearing problem. Is there any special assistance?
There are a limited number of headsets available - ask an usher, or sit closer to the front
How do I report sexual abuse?
Sexual Abuse Reporting Section of Diocesan Website - www.safeinourdiocese.org
